India is known for its rich diversity, and Indians are celebrated for their larger-than-life weddings! And when you combine the two, you get something so beautiful, vibrant, and unique that only India can offer. Whether you’re a soon-to-be bride or groom, a wedding enthusiast, or just someone who loves exploring cultural quirks, these rituals are sure to adda little sparkle to your day. Because trust us, the best way to truly experience an Indian wedding is to immerse yourself in the rituals that make them so special!
1. Shubho Drishti – The Bengali Magic Moment
Imagine Bollywood slow-mo but make it cultural! In a Bengali wedding, the bride hides her face with betel leaves as she is carried in by her brothers. The moment the groom and bride lock eyes for the first time (cue heart-eyes emoji), it’s called Shubho Drishti. It’s not just about the gaze – it’s a promise of eternal love. The drama, the feels, and the tradition? Move over rom-coms; this is real love in action!
2. Kashi Yatra – A Groom’s Little Adventure (Tamil Nadu/Andhra Pradesh)
What if the groom decides, mid-wedding, that he’s giving up on marriage to become a monk? Well here, the groom does it, quite literally! Enter the bride’s father, who chases after him to convince him to reconsider (with a little help from some well-timed humor and heartfelt persuasion). This ritual in Tamil Nadu and Andhra Pradesh is basically the rom-com we didn’t know we needed!
Spoiler alert: The groom always stays. After all, who can resist the charm of a grand Indian wedding? (and a beautiful bride, of course!)
3. Antarpat – Love Behind the Curtain (Maharashtra)
The drama is real in this Maharashtrian ritual! The bride and groom are separated by a cloth called antarpat during the initial ceremonies. It’s all about building that anticipation – the couple can only see each other after the priest chants the holy mantras. Think of it as the ultimate big reveal, with the crowd (read: family) cheering them on like it’s the finale of a fashion show!
4. Nga Thaba – Swimming together in harmony (Manipur)
Forget your typical wedding rituals – Nga Thaba is as unique as it gets! During thisauspicious Manipuri ceremony, two women from the groom’s side and one from the bride’s side come together for a symbolic fish release. They bring two healthy ngamu fish (a smaller variety of the Channa orientalis), which are kept in the Lai-ningthou room of the bride’s house before the ritual begins.
With a lantern lighting the way, the three women head to the nearest water body, each holding a fish. Here’s the beautiful twist: they release the fish into the water at the exact same time. The movement of the fish symbolizes the married life of the couple – if the fish swim together, it’s believed the marriage will be a harmonious and happy one. Talk about a poetic send-off for the newlyweds!
5. Kaleera Drop – Punjabi Bridesmaid Goals
If you’ve ever seen a Punjabi bride shake her kaleeras (those gorgeous gold ornaments hanging from her bangles) over her bridesmaids’ heads, you’ve witnessed this fun ritual. Legend has it, whoever gets hit by a kaleera is the next to tie the knot. It’s the desi equivalent of tossing the bouquet, but with extra sparkle and drama. Cue the playful dodging and squeals of “Not me, not me!”
Why These Rituals Are a Must-Know
These rituals are what makes Indian weddings so special. Each ceremony is infused with so much love, laughter, and deeply-rooted traditions, that they aren’t just cute add-ons; they’re a way of weaving the past into the present and celebrating the joy of two families coming together.
So, the next time you attend a wedding, keep an eye out for these gems. They might just steal the show – after the bride and groom, of course! And to all the couples-to-be, don’t shy away from embracing your culture or adding your unique twist to these age-old traditions.
After all, your wedding is your story – and what better way to tell it than through rituals as unique as your love?